Retreat to Maison Lamothe this winter
As one guest said to me last week, ‘I don’t want to go…I just want to sit in that chair for the day and read Art Books,’
‘Come back in the winter,’ I suggested, ‘and then there’ll be a roaring fire and I’ll make you hot chocolate.’
It’s coming to the end of June and I’ve been back at Maison Lamothe for almost three months. Twelve weeks of energizing experiences with my wonderful guests. I spent the winter living and working in the UK. Apart from the odd few days here and there, it had been a long time since I’d spent any length of time there. And enjoy it though I did, most of the time, my heart ached for Maison Lamothe.
I’ll always be a Brit at heart, but France is most definitely home. Ever since a school trip to St Malo at the age of 10, I’ve wanted to live in France and I’ve realised my dream although it’s been a strange old journey, with many twists and turns that has delivered me to my little slice of paradise. I’ve been in France now for almost eight years. We were, we thought, sensible spending several years renting in various regions of France hoping to discover whether France was really for us for keeps and if so which bit was most us. And then we found this little northerly corner of the Gers and fell in love. All logic went out of the window. Why did two people and a dog need six bedrooms and five bathrooms? Especially when the plan was to retire.
‘We could run a bed and breakfast,’ my husband suggested.
‘You’d be rubbish at that,’ I responded.
‘True,’ he conceded, ‘but you’d be great. You like having people to stay.’
And so with no more hospitality experience than waitressing back when I was at school, I went along with the crazy idea. It was true, I do like a house full of people and I’ve stayed in plenty of hotels and the best ones for me were the ones that feel like home. So what would be better than creating a home and sharing it? Like everything we ever did, we attacked the latest hare-brained scheme with enthusiasm and gusto and within weeks had had guinea-pig friends to stay and bookings for the following summer. We were up and running.
Discovering that the Camino de Santiago ran through our village was an unexpected bonus. And then tragedy struck. We had only been in situ for three months, when my husband died suddenly. It was December 2019. Everyone assumed I would pack up and go back to the UK. But it’s amazing what a woman and a dog can do when they have their hearts set on something. Even though 2020 was hardly the best year to launch a new business enterprise, Bertie and me cracked on and discovered that Maison Lamothe is a magical world even in less than ideal times.
Despite the feeling of calm, isolation and other worldliness, all roads either on car or foot lead to Maison Lamothe and from Easter until the clocks going back at the end of October, there’s a constant stream of visitors from all over the world. Our dinner table is a lovely group which changes nightly; sometimes a dozen or so people eagerly exchanging stories in a mixture of languages, other times smaller more intimate nights whiling away the hours sharing our dreams, marvelling at coincidences and serendipity. And always laughter. So much laughter.
I love that the Camino attracts so many female walkers, often undertaking the journey alone. So many different women with different life experiences, but with so much in common and a craving to make the most of every day. And this year more than ever, there seems more female travellers staying here, amazing women with whom I have made bonds and hope to see return. Indeed many do. And I hope to take up some of the many invitations to stay if I ever find myself in Auckland, New Zealand or Sydney or Montreal or Berlin.
In winter it is quieter and although this house is always cosy and welcoming; it slumbers in a half-life waiting for its far corners to be inhabited again. Bertie and I miss making so many new friends and welcoming back old ones. It is our guests which make life at Maison Lamothe so special and it is a source of never-ending joy to watch others fall in love; each finding their own unique reason to want to stay here longer.
Above all I want people to feel at home, to feel nurtured and cared for and for lone female travellers to feel that they are in a safe and friendly environment where they can do as they wish, spend time alone or be part of a group. I have a wide range of interests and I’d love to spend the quieter, winter months sharing them with others, be it writing, reading, walking, genealogy, history, visiting the local towns, markets and museums or even doing a jigsaw. The list goes on.
As one guest said to me last week, ‘I don’t want to go. I just want to sit in that chair for the day and read Art Books,’
‘Come back in the winter,’ I suggested, ‘and then there’ll be a roaring fire and I’ll make you hot chocolate.’
But then on a cold, crisp sunny winter’s day, I also like to take my hot chocolate lying on a sun bed next to the swimming pool hypnotized by the inviting but freezing water.
This is a great place to make friends and spend time in company, but for those that seek solitude; this is a quiet, relaxing space where they can pursue their own passion amidst this beautiful rolling landscape with people and activities only if and when they want to join in.
I hesitate to call what I want to create in the quiet winter months female retreats, more escapes from real life. A pause for self-care and joy, tailor-made for the individual tastes of the group with a soupçon of spontaneity thrown in.
I will be holding the first Escape Week from Monday 4 November to Saturday 9 November. Prices start at €725 for five nights in a single room with en-suite bathroom, breakfast, dinner and daily activities. Twin rooms are available at €1,175 based on two people sharing. Pick ups can be arranged from Agen TGV station, Valence d’Agen station or Toulouse Airport at extra cost. I can also arrange massages, spa trips and other well-being treats. For more information drop me a line at contact@maisonlamothe.com
I am so excited about my new plans to fill my winter with the warmth of others, sharing the secrets of this fabulous corner of France and would love to see you here.
Michelle Martinez – June 2024